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What Is Genuine Curiosity?

Oct 8
1 min read

During my stay in Dodhamb, I picked up some rocks on a walk.

I showed one to ChatGPT. It suggested the rock could be 500 to 700 million years old, formed during a geological period I had never thought about before.

That answer opened more questions. What was this place before it was this place? What had moved through here, over that kind of time? What else was I holding without knowing it?

Is this what genuine curiosity feels like? A discovery that makes the next question more interesting than the last.

There is a version of curiosity that is really information-gathering or asking questions to confirm, to assess, to fill a gap and move on. Leaders do this constantly and call it curiosity. It is useful but it is not the same thing.

Genuine curiosity is asking in a way that helps other person,or yourself, see something that wasn't seen before. It is less interested in the answer than in what the answer opens.

Leaders who carry this quality change the mindset of everyone around them. Curiosity makes it safe to not know yet.

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